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\u202c \u202a people they spend most of her life feeling offended by that someone did. The shocking revelation that I will do, will change your life ... you have offended anyone! Are your expectations as you'd expect from these people, that hurt. And the expectations of you think your thoughts. They are not real, are imaginary. If you expected that your parents gave you more love and not what you did before, there will feel offended. Are your expectations of what an ideal father should do with you, those who were raped. And your ideas are what hurt you. \u202c \u202a
If you expect your partner reacted such and such a way and did your partner ... it has not done anything. The difference between the care that you would expect and really did, which hurt you. Again, that is in your imagination, "angry with God? Are your beliefs of what should God, who hurt you. God never offended or hurt anyone. A habit requires all parties to operate. If you lose one, the disarming habit. The habit of feeling offended by what you make others (in fact nobody does anything) will disappear when you get to know them better source of "sins." \u202c \u202a
When we are born, we are authentic. But in our true nature, is suppressed and artificially replaced by concepts that our parents, society and television teach us. And create a false novel of how things should be in all aspects of your life, and how others should act.
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A novel that has nothing to do with investment. Also, people are creatures of inventories. Throughout your life, collecting experiences: parents, friends, family, etc. And the inventory stored in its interior. Negative experiences leave a deeper mark on us than positive. And when a person is being abused by someone, let that experience in their "inventory." \u202c \u202a When you know someone is afraid. And try to see if the new person will repeat the same attitudes that the wounded. Take a negative experience of their inventory. Put the lens of that experience and see new people and life experiences with these lenses result? Duplicate the same problems and the same negative experiences.
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And the negative inventory continues to grow. In fact, what it does is it prevents you. Do not let yourself be happy. And as you progress through the years, it is less happy. It is because the negative inventory is increasing year by year. Have you seen the elderly and the marriages of many years? Their inventory is so large, to stop the negativity is your life. Again and again draw experiences of negative inventory in any circumstance. One of the major sources of offense, is to try to impose the viewpoint of one person to another and guide your life. When you tell her what to do and says "do not" create resentment twice. First, you feel offended because he did what you wanted. Second, the other person is offended because they do not accept it as is. It is a vicious circle, everyone has a divine right to lead their lives as they please. Learn from their mistakes for themselves. Let them be! No one belongs.
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When the American colonists wanted to buy their land to the Redskins, they were answered "Buy our land? If you do not belong to us! Neither the sparkle of the water or air, or our brothers the buffalo which only hunt to survive. It is a completely unknown to us. " Neither nature nor your fathers, nor your children, friends or couples belong to you. It's like the sparkle of the water or air. You can not buy, you can not separate. Not yours, only you can enjoy as part of nature. The cause of a river you can not catch. You can only put his hands, feeling the water running between them, and let it go.
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People are a mighty river. Any attempt to catch them is going to hurt. Love them, enjoy them and let them go. So how I can person? \u202c \u202a \u202a \u202a
1. Understand that no one has offended. Are your ideas about how people should act and God, that hurt. These ideas are the product of a social mask, you've learned from your childhood in an unconscious way. Recognizes that most people will never reconcile with those ideas you have. Because they have theirs. \u202c \u202c \u202a
2. Let people be, let it guide their lives as they see fit. It is your responsibility. Give them advice if they ask, but allows them to take their decisions is their divine right by birth: free will and freedom. \u202c \u202a
3. No one belongs. Not your parents, or friends or partners. We are all part of the machinery of nature, let things flow without resist them. Live and let live.
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4. Stop thinking too much. Open to the possibility of new experiences. Do not use your inventory. Open your eyes and see the flow of life as it is. When you clean your vision of sunglasses and you take them off, the result is clean vision.
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5. Perfection does not exist. Neither father nor friends, nor the couple are perfect. It is a concept created by the human mind that can understand an intellectual level, but in reality does not exist. Because it is an imaginary concept. A perfect forest trees would be pure, sun, bugs ... is there? No. For a fish, the sea would be perfect place where no predators exist? No. Only an intellectual level. In reality, will never exist. Naturally, the fish is left alone to enjoy the reality. Any frustration that the sea is not how you want it makes no sense, no longer resist that people are not like you or do not think like you. Accept people as the fish accepts the sea and love them as they are. \u202c \u202a
6. Intoxicated with life. Real life is more beautiful and exciting than any idea you have of the world. I am happy to tell you from experience.
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7. Imagine the person who offended you in the past. Imagine that both are comfortably seated. Tell why you are offended. Listen to his explanation of why he did love. And forgive her. If a loved one is no longer in this world, uses this dynamic to say what you want. Listen to his response. And say goodbye. You'll get a great peace.
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8. In light of the short life we \u200b\u200bhave, we only have time to live, enjoy and be happy. Our partner's death at any time, without warning, we may take in his arms. Superfluous and useless to spend time thinking l the offenses of others. Neither can give you that luxury.
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9. It is natural to go through a period staff mourning, let your wound heals. Download (do not get even confused with) someone to flush the pain. Re-read this article many times and let the concepts begin to sow seeds of consciousness within. Learn honestly the mistakes you made. Promise yourself not do it again and returns to live life.
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