Forgive others and let them be 
people they spend most of her life feeling offended by what someone did.
The shocking revelation that I will do, will change your life ...
Nobody has offended you!
are your expectations of what you'd expect from these people, that hurt. And the expectations
you believe them with your thoughts. They are not real. Are imaginary.
If you expected that your parents gave you more love, not what you did, you have no reason to feel offended. Are your expectations of what an ideal father should have done you, those who were raped. And your ideas are what hurt you.
If you expect your partner to react in such and such a way and did not
your partner ... it has not done anything. The difference gets the attention that you would expect and actually did, which hurt you.
Again, that is in your imagination.
Angry with God? Are your beliefs of what should God, who hurt you. God never offended and hurt anyone.
A habit requires all parties to operate. If you lose one, a habit is disarmed.
The habit of feeling offended by what you make others (in fact nobody does nothing) disappear when you know better the source of the "sins."
When we are born, we are authentic. But our true nature is artificially suppressed and replaced by concepts that our parents, society and television teach us.
and create a false novel of how things should be in all aspects of your life and how others should act. A novel that has nothing to do with reality.
Also, people are creatures of inventory. Throughout his life, collecting experiences: parents, friends, lovers, etc.. and stored in its internal inventory.
Negative experiences leave a deeper mark on us than positive.
And when a person is being abused by someone, let that experience in their "inventory." When you know someone is afraid. And try to see if the new person will repeat the same attitudes that the wounded.
Take a negative experience of their inventory. Puts on lenses that experience and see new people and life experiences with these lenses.
result? Duplicate the same problems and the same negative experiences.
And the negative inventory continues to grow. In fact, what it does is it prevents you. Do not let yourself be happy. And as we advance in years, he is less happy. It is because the negative inventory increases year to year.
Have you seen the elderly and families with many years? Their inventory is so large, it seems that negativity is your life. Again and again take its inventory negative experiences in any circumstance.
One of the major sources of offense, is to try to impose the viewpoint of one person to another and guide your life. When you tell her what to do and says "no", you create resentment twice. First, you feel offended because he did what you wanted. Second, the other person is offended because they do not accept it as is.
And it's a vicious circle.
Everyone has a divine right to lead their lives as they please. Learn from their mistakes for themselves. Let them be.
Also, no one belongs. When the American colonists wanted to buy their land to the Redskins, they were answered "Buy our land? If you do not belong to us! Neither the sparkle of the water or air, or our brothers the buffalo which only hunt to survive. It is a completely unknown to us. "
Neither nature nor your fathers, nor your children, your friends or partners belong to you. It's like the sparkle of the water or air. You can not buy. You can not separate. Not yours. Only you can enjoy as part of nature. The riverbed you can not catch. You can only put his hands, feeling the water running between them, and let it go.
People are a rushing river. Any attempt to catch them is going to hurt. Love them, enjoy them and let them go.
So how I can forgive?
1) Understand that no one has offended. Are your ideas about how people should act and God that hurt. These ideas are the product of a social mask, you've learned from your childhood in an unconscious way. Recognizes that most people will never fit in with these ideas you have. Because they are misconceptions.
2) Let people be. Let that guide their lives as they see fit. It is your responsibility. Give advice, but allows them to take their decisions. It is his divine right by birth: free will and freedom.
3) No one is yours. Not your parents, friends and couples. We are all part of the machinery of nature. Let things flow without resist them. Love and let it be.
4) Stop thinking too much. Open yourself to the possibility of new experiences. Do not use your inventory. Open your eyes and see the flow of life as it is. When you clean your vision of sunglasses and you take them off, the result is clean vision.
5) Perfection does not exist. Neither the father, friend, partner or perfect God. It is a concept created by the human mind has an intellectual level can understand, but in reality does not exist. Because it is an imaginary concept. A perfect forest trees would be pure, rich sun, no bugs ... is there? No. For a fish, the sea would be perfect place where no predators exist? No. Only an intellectual level. In reality NEVER WILL EXIST. Naturally, the fish is left alone to enjoy the reality. Any frustration that the sea is not how you want it makes no sense. Resist stop people are not like you. Accept people as the fish accepts the sea and love them as they are.
6) Intoxicated with life. Real life is more beautiful and exciting than any idea you have of the world. I am happy to tell you experience.
7) Imagine the person who offended you in the past. Imagine that both are comfortably seated. Tell why you were offended. Listen to his explanation of why he did love. And forgive her. If a loved one is no longer in this world, uses this dynamic to say what you want. Listen to his response. And say goodbye. You'll get a great peace.
8) In light of the short life we \u200b\u200bhave, we only have time to live, enjoy and be happy. Our partner's death at any time, without warning, we may take in his arms. It is unnecessary to spend time thinking about the offenses of others. You can not give you that luxury.
9) It is natural to go through a period of mourning to forgive, let your wound heal. Download to someone to flush the pain. Re-read this article many times and let the concepts begin to sow seeds of consciousness within. Learn honestly the mistakes you made, promise yourself not do it again and returns to live life.
Let the world be. And let yourself be you too.
