love is giving, not just emotion, but the essence of life itself. To love is to embrace greater joy, the experience of his own divinity. Amar is created from the perfection that the power and grace give us life. To love is to admire the beauty of birth and death. Love is seeing all the world immersed in the details of life. To love is to know life and know life is part of a oneness with the universe. (Moments of silence, John Columbus Taylor).
all need to express love and we all want to receive it. Love is something that has been studied over the years and has been the subject of a multitude of books in prose, poetry, novel, but what is love?
We will see from a practical point of view, applicable to everyday life. Love must be translated into action, love without expression of the same, is not love. How do I serve my sense that a person has love for me if I never put it?
People do we fall for what others feel about us, we fell in love with what others express toward us. Expression is important, not sentiment.
We learn that for many years we have had a misconception of love, which teaches us that love is to feel and experience a tingling, nervousness, excitement in us, but not, love is not an emotion , love contains emotions, but not limited to that.
CAN NOT BE AN EMOTION
love someone is a conscious decision with emotions. When we got married we do not give a ring of emotion, do not give a ring of enthusiasm, do not give a ring of "beats me", give an engagement ring and say, in good times and bad.
Why?, Because anyone can love the good, but the bad is where love is shown through the commitment.
may sound very strong and very cold to say that love is a decision, we're not leaving out the emotions, of course you have to have emotions, but love can not be an emotion, that is the cause of many divorces, breakups , and infidelity.
think that love is feeling and not exclusively so, on the contrary, love is even decide to keep alive the emotions, make the decision in the case of a couple to continue coming together every two weeks or once a week. Let
children with a family moment with a person we hire and as a couple, take walks, go to the movies, going out for coffee, just plain fun as a couple, have time for each other.
NOT WORTH UP TO EXPRESS
Why? To enrich our relationship and keep alive the emotions. Love is a decision translated on very simple: time spent with children, time spent on our couples, time spent on the person you love, details.
listening, physical contact, hugging our kids, kiss your partner, something as simple as put into our mouths words as simple as "I love you, you are important to me."
live in a culture in which we are ashamed even to say "I love you." We can not allow that love is limited to emotions, because emotions change, even in women, their monthly cycle physical, physiological, causes your emotions are altered.
If they depend solely on what they feel to say whether they love or not, periodically we would say "I love you not today," because I do not feel today, today I feel terrible.
People should not base our emotions love, we are much more than that. Love, as we said, must be translated into specific, love until it is expressed and you and I must do.
CONCLUSION:
In a sense no doubt, but partly also a decision k and k people do not love at first is poor with us, at least for NASCAR ke first feeling of love we build and open our hearts by ke ke see that person seems deserving, has been both but that if they ke that feeling there is nothing to feel easy to leave just because we choose k so .. lol
is a feeling that triggers (if external factors conducive) for a decision.
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