I understand know very little about relationships, most recently, unintentionally and without realizing it, watching my experiences, my successes and especially my mistakes, I've seen that in matters of love, I still have both LEARN ... by UNDERSTAND ... for CHANGE ... to correct ... by OK ... by IMPROVE ...
to fall in love I must learn not to idealize the other ...
I accept that love as anything else in life, there are slips, falls and pain, and fear only makes things more ...
SHOULD LEARN overestimate is not good, deify, or idealize anyone because we are all human and I should not expect my partner more than expected from a human being ...
SHOULD LEARN is good as I am, if that does not involve anyone who is disrespecting me ...
I accept that sometimes it is necessary to go through great pain to know a great happiness, and that sometimes the bottom floor is more apt to jump ... I HAVE THIS
feel something today that does not involve the feel tomorrow, and as I may I also enjoy letting mourn, because the pain is part of life as much as the pleasure ...
I to understand that the comfort provided by the routine is misleading, because the reality is constantly changing, so it is necessary to learn to tolerate the natural insecurity of daily life ...
I accept that the plans can disappear in an instant, because the future is moving as he wants and not the way I want. If this allows me to do something about it, I should be thankful and do not regret what I could not do.
pleasing I must accept that anyone today does not guarantee a pleasant morning. And that need not offend me if you agree ...
If I accept that sometimes people can not give more.
If I accept that whoever is with me has the right to be, as I already do not like.
If I accept that he is entitled to make their own decisions, although I am not satisfied.
I recall that sometimes the good is obtained by waiting and pressing is ruined. So be patient, wait quietly and REMEMBER ...
that impatience is a product of an emotional impulse, which may soon pass. That
forward who is choking me.
That pressure can turn into disrespect.
to make a decision while I'm looking forward is dangerous, because I'm influenced by an extreme emotional state and lose all objectivity, there is not my truth, but my impulse, my compulsion, and could do something that I regret.
Also, if I'm patient waiting will not see as suffering.
I must learn to not be possessive. My partner is not mine, is provided, and "owner" is entitled to take it when you want. And even if "owning" someone provide more security than to have given, I understand that this is an illusion. Although the creation of mine, it is not, so ...
I can not decide on the life of whoever is with me.
I can not wait to act only according to my wishes.
not I control, manipulate, owning it, or decide its fate. I will not yell at
life for me back what I borrowed.
But mostly ... I MUST LEARN ... THAT never stop learning, and as I continue learning, I must be allowed to live and feel. For
all this, I throw really want to be right with my boyfriend and together we can create beautiful things together and to spend much time together.
I love Luis, thanks for everything.
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